Bar Girl Archetypes – The Good, the Bad, and Everything in Between

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The term “bar girl” refers to the ladies working at the entertainment establishments in places like our very own Sin City, Pattaya. There are a number of diverse venues providing entertainment for gentlemen with all tastes, desires, and budgets. When choosing your ideal bar girl it is first important to consider exactly what it is you are looking for. Are you looking for a short term wild weekend? Perhaps you are looking for a long term relationship rather than all the craziness. Or maybe you want something a little more casual. Something in between the wild weekend and settling down for marriage.

Whatever you are looking for there is a bar girl archetype that will suit your tastes. For simplicity we are going to separate our girls into age groups.

Bar Girl Archetype Under 20: Jailbait

DANGER! DANGER! You have approached dangerous territory that could lead to legal problems. Find a new girl.

Bar Girl Archetype 20 – 25: Wild & Free

The Wild & Free Archetype covers girls from 20 – 25 years old. We will assume you have done your due diligence and checked their ID to avoid the Jail bait and they are indeed in the correct category of girl. The Wild & Free bar girls are just that, they are young, full of energy. What they lack in experience they make up in enthusiasm. These girls get off the bus in Pattaya straight from Isarn or some village in rural or jungle Thailand and the city lights dazzle these girls. They are easily impressed and not overly influenced or embittered by a life in the scene.

If you are looking to feel young, want a wild weekend, or something casual this archetype is great. The Wild & Free bargirl is usually not ready to settle down, or looking for a long term relationship, however at this tender young age they may be more susceptible to your influences. If you are willing to put in the work some say it is always better to get them young. Up to you.

Bar Girl Archetype 25 – 40: Prime Time


The Prime Time bar girl archetype is made up of the most diverse group of girls. In the Prime Time group you will find girls still young enough to give you a wild weekend, and the skills to blow your mind. There are girls who are getting to the top end of Prime Time and these girls have been in the scene long enough to know what they like and what they don’t like and are likely considering settling down with some lucky gentleman.

On the other hand some within the Prime Time archetype are not looking to settle down and are at the peak of their game. They want one thing – Your money. This is their craft and they have honed it. They will give you anything you are looking for, or at least the perception of it. Do not be shocked if you are not the only one. These girls are much less susceptible to your influence than the Wild & Free girls.

Bar Girl Archetype 40 plus: Veteran

The Veteran archetype can be a dream or a nightmare. They have a lot of skill, or they never would have lasted this long, however there is typically no retirement plan in this line of work and Veterans who are showing their age may be getting a bit desperate looking for some poor unsuspecting sucker to take care of her in her old age. This is when you WANT the girls that came to the scene originally from the country. The country girls are raised differently than the girls that have only known the city.

Another advantage to the Veteran is they have amassed a great set of skills. Veterans have been known to shock a young bloke or two in there day or give the discerning gentlemen the type of joy he gets when he enjoys an antique automobile or a properly aged scotch. Do not write off the Veterans. If you are looking to settle down they can be ideal, or if you want something not quite run of the mill, pay a visit to these queens of entertainment.

The different archetypes of bar girls all have good points and bad points. Figure out what you are looking for, and go out and find it. If you can imagine it, you can probably find it in Sin City.